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Very excited that my first academic publication came out this week, a book chapter co-authored with Eva Illouz and published by Bloomsbury as part of their cultural history of marriage series
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This chapter is about how marriage became an uncertain institution and how this is reflected in the cinematic genre of marriage thrillers (where a seemingly perfect husband turns out to be a psycho and tries to kill his wife) from Film Noir to Gone Girl
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Wrote it before beginning my PhD so no coffee connection

We reflect on the fact that romantic relationships today have built-in contradictions in them
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While up until the 19th century marriage was viewed as a economic or political arrangement where love grows or it doesn't, everything changed when we started expecting it to fulfill - exclusively - a large part of our needs, notably romantic love, sexual satisfaction, and intimacy
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But this happened in parallel to the growing popularity of self-help narratives and a growing dominance of the idea of authenticity or differently said, of "being true" to "our authentic selves"
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We are taught to uncompromisingly pursue our dreams and desires, to strive for growth, to remain true to ourselves, to not settle in love and in sex
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We also increasingly live in an economy of choice, with dating subjected to market logic (think Tinder) and a constant presence of other "happy selves" indicating us that there's always something better (think FOMO)
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At the same time, we are also taught that relationships are about work and learning to compromise, that infidelity is just about the worst thing you can do to your partner and that lying about it may be even worse. That if sexual passion is lacking it is indicative of a pathology in the relationship, but that it is un-normative at best to outsource it
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But in truth, maintaining intimacy, sexual desire and romantic love over time is not always sustainable
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In the psychologised, neo-liberal world we live in, responsibility over our happiness has been transferred to our hands, often blurring the role of society, culture, the economy and the State in our personal challenges and failures...
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DM to read more

Very excited that my first academic publication came out this week, a book chapter co-authored with Eva Illouz and published by Bloomsbury as part of their cultural history of marriage series
👰
This chapter is about how marriage became an uncertain institution and how this is reflected in the cinematic genre of marriage thrillers (where a seemingly perfect husband turns out to be a psycho and tries to kill his wife) from Film Noir to Gone Girl
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Wrote it before beginning my PhD so no coffee connection
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We reflect on the fact that romantic relationships today have built-in contradictions in them
💢
While up until the 19th century marriage was viewed as a economic or political arrangement where love grows or it doesn't, everything changed when we started expecting it to fulfill - exclusively - a large part of our needs, notably romantic love, sexual satisfaction, and intimacy
👰
But this happened in parallel to the growing popularity of self-help narratives and a growing dominance of the idea of authenticity or differently said, of "being true" to "our authentic selves"
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We are taught to uncompromisingly pursue our dreams and desires, to strive for growth, to remain true to ourselves, to not settle in love and in sex
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We also increasingly live in an economy of choice, with dating subjected to market logic (think Tinder) and a constant presence of other "happy selves" indicating us that there's always something better (think FOMO)
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At the same time, we are also taught that relationships are about work and learning to compromise, that infidelity is just about the worst thing you can do to your partner and that lying about it may be even worse. That if sexual passion is lacking it is indicative of a pathology in the relationship, but that it is un-normative at best to outsource it
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But in truth, maintaining intimacy, sexual desire and romantic love over time is not always sustainable
🗝️
In the psychologised, neo-liberal world we live in, responsibility over our happiness has been transferred to our hands, often blurring the role of society, culture, the economy and the State in our personal challenges and failures...
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DM to read more
24 3 2 hours ago

Fridays w/ Fidelman today’s topic: Gaslighting - It’s Not Your Partner, It’s You #fidelman #fridaysw/fidelman #fridayswithfidelman #lifecoach #attunement #traumahealing #codependence #gaslight #gaslighting

Fridays w/ Fidelman today’s topic: Gaslighting - It’s Not Your Partner, It’s You #fidelman #fridaysw/fidelman #fridayswithfidelman #lifecoach #attunement #traumahealing #codependence #gaslight #gaslighting
3 0 4 hours ago

💡GASLIGHT: Esse nome tem a sua origem devido à peça teatral Gas Light de 1938, traduzido como “meia luz”, tendo duas adaptações para o cinema; uma em 1940 e outra em 1944. A gênese desse nome ocorreu devido à manipulação psicológica sistemática utilizada pelo personagem contra sua esposa. O nome é “meia luz”, visto que se refere a um tipo de iluminação da época, à gás, onde se poderia modificar a intensidade da luz. Essa era uma das situações, parte do jogo, de manipulação do marido para desestabilizar a sua esposa, pois ele diminuía e aumentava e quando ela percebia, ele negava a mudança.
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👎GASLIGHTING é uma forma de abuso psicológico no qual informações são distorcidas, seletivamente omitidas para favorecer o abusador ou simplesmente inventadas com a intenção de fazer a vítima duvidar de sua própria memória, percepção e sanidade.
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#gaslighting #gaslight #abusoemocional #abusopsicologico #abuso #violenciaemocional #violenciapsicológica #conscientizacao #feminismo #mulheres #nascisismoperverso #distorcao #feminismobrasil

💡GASLIGHT: Esse nome tem a sua origem devido à peça teatral Gas Light de 1938, traduzido como “meia luz”, tendo duas adaptações para o cinema; uma em 1940 e outra em 1944. A gênese desse nome ocorreu devido à manipulação psicológica sistemática utilizada pelo personagem contra sua esposa. O nome é “meia luz”, visto que se refere a um tipo de iluminação da época, à gás, onde se poderia modificar a intensidade da luz. Essa era uma das situações, parte do jogo, de manipulação do marido para desestabilizar a sua esposa, pois ele diminuía e aumentava e quando ela percebia, ele negava a mudança.
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👎GASLIGHTING é uma forma de abuso psicológico no qual informações são distorcidas, seletivamente omitidas para favorecer o abusador ou simplesmente inventadas com a intenção de fazer a vítima duvidar de sua própria memória, percepção e sanidade.
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#gaslighting #gaslight #abusoemocional #abusopsicologico #abuso #violenciaemocional #violenciapsicológica #conscientizacao #feminismo #mulheres #nascisismoperverso #distorcao #feminismobrasil
5 0 4 hours ago

Something that absolutely charmed me in New Orleans was the gas lanterns that burn in many of the doorways - we don’t do that sort of beautiful thing here in MN #neworleans #thefrenchquarter #oldschool #thingsilove #nola #gaslight #laterns #absolutehistorybuff

Something that absolutely charmed me in New Orleans was the gas lanterns that burn in many of the doorways - we don’t do that sort of beautiful thing here in MN #neworleans #thefrenchquarter #oldschool #thingsilove #nola #gaslight #laterns #absolutehistorybuff
6 0 8 hours ago
Two backgrounds ready for panelling for my bloody gothic tale #gothichorror #ripper #blood #art #comic #comicpanel #comicart #horror #horrorart #drawing #ink #red #gaslight #victorian #darkart #darkartists #horror #occult
14 1 9 hours ago

Gaslight (1944) 🎬 Dir: George Cukor ⭐ Ingrid Bergman, Charles Boyer, Joseph Cotten, Angela Lansbury. This is the @warnerarchive DVD release 💿 First time watch for me, recommended by a customer at work! Bergman was outstanding in this role, unbelievable. There's some short but sweet Bonus content included too! 👍🏻 #gaslight #ingridbergman #georgecukor

Gaslight (1944) 🎬 Dir: George Cukor ⭐ Ingrid Bergman, Charles Boyer, Joseph Cotten, Angela Lansbury. This is the @warnerarchive DVD release 💿 First time watch for me, recommended by a customer at work! Bergman was outstanding in this role, unbelievable. There's some short but sweet Bonus content included too! 👍🏻 #gaslight #ingridbergman #georgecukor
11 3 9 hours ago

Gaslight is "to manipulate (someone) by psychological means into questioning their own sanity". -Oxford Dictionary

This can occur not only between intimate partners but within families and friendships. Let's continue to break the silence and make our mental health a priority.
#hazaelhaven #gaslighting #gaslight #narcassist #healthyrelationships #healthymindset #healthyoptions #mentalhealthrecovery #mentalhealthtips #friendship

Gaslight is "to manipulate (someone) by psychological means into questioning their own sanity". -Oxford Dictionary

This can occur not only between intimate partners but within families and friendships. Let's continue to break the silence and make our mental health a priority. 
#hazaelhaven #gaslighting #gaslight #narcassist #healthyrelationships #healthymindset #healthyoptions #mentalhealthrecovery #mentalhealthtips #friendship
4 0 11 hours ago

This LED conversion kit is sold by @americangaslampworks for $59 and mimics the original gas mantles in our gaslights. We installed one today on Iroquois between Agnes and St. Paul. Next time you pass by, see if you can tell which one is not real gas? #indianvillagedetroit #detroit #gaslight #thisoldhouse

This LED conversion kit is sold by @americangaslampworks for $59 and mimics the original gas mantles in our gaslights.  We installed one today on Iroquois between Agnes and St. Paul.  Next time you pass by, see if you can tell which one is not real gas? #indianvillagedetroit #detroit #gaslight #thisoldhouse
55 1 11 hours ago

So excited to share with you all that the very first episode of #Gaslight is here , now available on @applepodcasts so please go listen :) today!! and subscribe :) new episodes will be coming out everyday till Thanksgiving ! #gaslight #audiodrama from @qcodemedia

So excited to share with you all that the very first episode of #Gaslight is here , now available on @applepodcasts so please go listen :) today!! and subscribe :) new episodes will be coming out everyday  till Thanksgiving ! #gaslight #audiodrama from @qcodemedia
1 0 14 hours ago

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Our stylish state-of-the-art gas tikis can be ignited with the simple push of a button from your iPhone/Android. We have over 40 styles of gas torches to choose from.
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Dan A. - Loves his torches and couldn’t be happier with his choice!
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Check all of them out @ https://outdoorfireandpatio.com/tiki-torches.html
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Call a Gas Fire Expert Today🔥📱 866-488-6518
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30 0 16 hours ago

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As we heal from a toxic marriage or relationship we may feel very delicate, hurt, worn down, etc. I often picture a single bloom that’s trying to re-emerge 🥀 as it’s radiant self but needs shelter from the elements and environment... #npdsurvivor 👉🏼it’s been beat up for so long it’s going to need some protection to get back to it’s healthy state.

❗️Unfortunately... long story short; many times during and post divorce we encounter people who are 👺 nasty, vile toxic people who invade our space and actually set us back in our healing. We may struggle with setting boundaries. We may also have difficulty communicating without becoming emotional. 🗣 We may be gaslighted for speaking about it. We may want to run and hide and find comfort from the battle field.

💔 I think this can cause us to yearn for a safe person and wish we had that in a partner because we need physical comfort (hugs/holding) from someone safe and can’t have it. 😢 We can easily begin to self soothe in unhealthy ways through food, alcohol, isolation etc. 🌼 We have to look for healthy ways to cope. And we have to begin purging our environment of toxic people so we can get to a good place.

💖✨💖 Healing is a really tough process. Attorneys, courts, strangers, bosses and co-workers may cause more trauma. Remember you have come a long way and you are deserving of respect not only in what is said to you but tone. You don’t have to be around ugly people.



#npdawareness #narcsurvivor #narcissisticabuse
#narcfree #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #exhusband #highconflict #emotionalabuse #bullies #psychologicalabuse #psychologicalwarfare #traumarecovery #traumahealing #innerchildhealing #innerchildwork #divorcinganarcissist #exboyfriend #evilpeople #manipulators #gaslight #abusesurvivor #abusefree #surthriver #empaths #npdvictim #npdrecovery #breakup #boundaries

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As we heal from a toxic marriage or relationship we  may feel very delicate, hurt, worn down, etc. I often picture a single bloom that’s trying to re-emerge 🥀 as it’s radiant self but needs shelter from the elements and environment... #npdsurvivor 👉🏼it’s been beat up for so long it’s going to need some protection to get back to it’s healthy state.
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❗️Unfortunately... long story short; many times during and post divorce we encounter people who are 👺 nasty, vile toxic people who invade our space and actually set us back in our healing. We may struggle with setting boundaries. We may also have difficulty communicating without becoming emotional. 🗣 We may be gaslighted for speaking about it. We may want to run and hide and find comfort from the battle field.
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💔 I think this can cause us to yearn for a safe person and wish we had that in a partner because we need physical comfort (hugs/holding) from someone safe and can’t have it. 😢 We can easily begin to self soothe in unhealthy ways through food, alcohol, isolation etc. 🌼 We have to look for healthy ways to cope. And we have to begin purging our environment of toxic people so we can get to a good place.
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💖✨💖 Healing is a really tough process. Attorneys, courts, strangers, bosses and co-workers may cause more trauma. Remember you have come a long way and you are deserving of respect not only in what is said to you but tone. You don’t have to be around ugly people.
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#npdawareness #narcsurvivor #narcissisticabuse 
#narcfree #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #exhusband #highconflict #emotionalabuse #bullies #psychologicalabuse #psychologicalwarfare #traumarecovery #traumahealing #innerchildhealing #innerchildwork #divorcinganarcissist #exboyfriend #evilpeople #manipulators #gaslight #abusesurvivor #abusefree #surthriver #empaths #npdvictim #npdrecovery #breakup #boundaries
289 21 16 hours ago

OUT NOW!!! LINK IN BIO!!!!

OUT NOW!!! LINK IN BIO!!!!
69 1 17 hours ago

⚘ "If I were not mad, I could have helped you, whatever you had done, I could've pitied and protected you. But because I am mad, I hate you, because I am mad, I have betrayed you, and because I am mad, I'm rejoicing in my heart, without a shred of pity, without a shred of regret, watching you go with glory in my heart." - Ingrid Bergman as Paula Alquist in Gaslight (1944)

#ingridbergman #gaslight #film #movie #goldenageofhollywood #blackandwhite #filmquotes #hollywood #classic #oscars #1940s #actress #turnerclassicmovies #instagood

⚘ "If I were not mad, I could have helped you, whatever you had done, I could've pitied and protected you. But because I am mad, I hate you, because I am mad, I have betrayed you, and because I am mad, I'm rejoicing in my heart, without a shred of pity, without a shred of regret, watching you go with glory in my heart." - Ingrid Bergman as Paula Alquist in Gaslight (1944)

#ingridbergman #gaslight #film #movie #goldenageofhollywood #blackandwhite #filmquotes #hollywood #classic #oscars #1940s #actress #turnerclassicmovies #instagood
30 9 20 hours ago

New on www.33ish.com.

You've probably heard of #gaslighting but never quite understood what it meant or what it's #psychological and #emotional implications are to/in your interpersonal relationships. You might even be going through it without knowing, or ooohhh, it even might be you putting (unknowingly) someone through it. Find out what it means to #gaslight someone or be #gaslighted in this new blog post.
#mentalhealth #relationshiphealth

New on www.33ish.com.

You've probably heard of #gaslighting but never quite understood what it meant or what it's #psychological and #emotional implications are to/in your interpersonal relationships. You might even be going through it without knowing, or ooohhh, it even might be you putting (unknowingly) someone through it. Find out what it means to #gaslight someone or be #gaslighted in this new blog post. 
#mentalhealth #relationshiphealth
3 0 17 January, 2020

A flying monkey would never say, "poor you" but would always say, "your poor mother.
Narcissists surround themselves with flying monkeys who do their bidding.
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The flying monkeys always prioritize the narcissist's feelings over everyone else's.
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A common example of this is when an adult child tells a flying monkey family friend about a hardship they personally experienced
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and instead of acknowledging the personal difficulty experienced
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the family friend only reacts to the difficulty that the narcissist mother must have had as a proxy.
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Have you ever had this experience? It is an intense devaluation.
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It is like being told: You aren't important enough for your pain or hardship to matter. You only matter in a very small way in that your well-being has an impact on the more important person - the narcissist.
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It’s the same when you have a success. .
The only part of it that matters is the way it affects the narcissist.
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Don't fall for this false narrative.
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Your well-being matters separately from how you affect anyone else. .

You are important.
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You are worthy.

A flying monkey would never say, "poor you" but would always say, "your poor mother. 
Narcissists surround themselves with flying monkeys who do their bidding.
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The flying monkeys always prioritize the narcissist's feelings over everyone else's.
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A common example of this is when an adult child tells a flying monkey family friend about a hardship they personally experienced
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and instead of acknowledging the personal difficulty experienced
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the family friend only reacts to the difficulty that the narcissist mother must have had as a proxy.
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Have you ever had this experience? It is an intense devaluation.
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It is like being told: You aren't important enough for your pain or hardship to matter. You only matter in a very small way in that your well-being has an impact on the more important person - the narcissist.
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It’s the same when you have a success. .
The only part of it that matters is the way it affects the narcissist.
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Don't fall for this false narrative.
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Your well-being matters separately from how you affect anyone else. .

You are important.
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You are worthy.
46 3 17 January, 2020
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#crazybitch #gaslight #livingmybestlife
5 0 17 January, 2020

It’s mid-January but it feels like Spring in Charlotte! Who else wants to spend a day like today on this porch? We can’t get enough of the Tradd Street lanterns with Full Scrolls. Photo by @abowlfulloflemons ☀️



#lanternandscroll #copperlights #beautifulhomes #porch #porchdecor #affordableluxury #copperlighting #charlottenc #classicbeauty #usamade #interiordesign #copperlantern #gaslanterns #gaslight #love #lightfixturelove #whitehouse #beautifuldoors #charlotterealestate #gaslantern

It’s mid-January but it feels like Spring in Charlotte! Who else wants to spend a day like today on this porch? We can’t get enough of the Tradd Street lanterns with Full Scrolls. Photo by @abowlfulloflemons ☀️
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#lanternandscroll #copperlights #beautifulhomes #porch #porchdecor #affordableluxury #copperlighting #charlottenc #classicbeauty #usamade #interiordesign #copperlantern #gaslanterns #gaslight #love #lightfixturelove #whitehouse #beautifuldoors #charlotterealestate #gaslantern
87 1 16 January, 2020

Gaining insight into the codependence of our patterns often requires regular reality checks as well as outside helpers that can offer objective feedback.
P.S.: If you are inspired to repost my Instagram, please like it and mention @eleanorpayson in your caption - thanks!
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Gaining insight into the codependence of our patterns often requires regular reality checks as well as outside helpers that can offer objective feedback. 
P.S.: If you are inspired to repost my Instagram, please like it and mention @eleanorpayson in your caption - thanks!
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39 1 16 January, 2020
A peanut seller looks expectantly  as I pass by, wondering if he found his next customer. To his dismay all I wanted was a picture, nevertheless,he was happy to pose for the camera !
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#peanutseller #nightphotography #streetphotography #lightandshadow #gaslight #ooty #nilgiris #peanut #snacktime #streetvendors #chillyweather #ooty #thenilgiris #streetart #nightlife @ootydiaries @weloveooty @nilgiris_ #tourism #indiatoday #click #photooftheday #darkness #lighttheworld #streetphotographers #india_clicks #india #indianphoto #southindia #hillstation #smalltownlife #mountaineers
38 2 16 January, 2020

POR QUÉ ENFERMAMOS?
Cuando viene un paciente a mi consultorio con un dolor de columna, rodilla, o lo que sea y me dice: "ésta rodilla no me deja andar, me tiene loca; hace rato que me viene molestando". O "siempre sufrí de lumbalgia"..... mientras trato en lo inmediato el síntoma para aliviarle, le pregunto: Cómo va tu vida? Y se desahogan...
En su relato seguramente se perciben las causas, que no están precisamente en su rodilla o colunma.
Nosotros, los profesionales de la salud, tratamos generalmente, los síntomas, aliviando por un rato, el dolor, pero no la causa, que es donde todos los médicos deberían poner el acento. El cuerpo es el mapa.La representación geográfica del alma. Expresa con dolor lo que sufre el ALMA.
En mi libro #GASLIGHT
#eljuegomacabrodelaseduccion, en el Capítulo "El alma al diablo", parafraseando a Cohelo, cité esta frase: ... la enfermera pregunta, no quieres saber lo que tienes? Y Lucía responde, "no es lo que estás viendo en mi cuerpo; es lo que está sucediendo en mi alma".
Hoy, después de lo que me sucedió, ya dejé de rehabilitar cuerpos y comencé a rehabilitar almas. En definitiva, son las dos caras de una misma moneda!
Luego les contaré una anécdota con una paciente.
#elsintomanoeslacausa
#elcuerpoexpresaeldolordelalma
#bienestar #alertar #informar #prevenir
#alma #cuerpo #salud #dolor
#porqueenfermamos

POR QUÉ ENFERMAMOS?
Cuando viene un paciente a mi consultorio con un dolor de columna, rodilla, o lo que sea y me dice: "ésta rodilla no me deja andar, me tiene loca; hace rato que me viene molestando". O "siempre sufrí de lumbalgia"..... mientras trato en lo inmediato el síntoma para aliviarle, le pregunto: Cómo va tu vida? Y se desahogan...
En su relato seguramente se perciben las causas, que no están precisamente en su rodilla o colunma. 
Nosotros, los profesionales de la salud, tratamos generalmente, los síntomas, aliviando por un rato, el dolor, pero no la causa, que es donde todos los médicos deberían poner el acento. El cuerpo es el mapa.La representación geográfica del alma. Expresa con dolor lo que sufre el ALMA. 
En mi libro #GASLIGHT
#eljuegomacabrodelaseduccion, en el Capítulo "El alma al diablo", parafraseando a  Cohelo, cité  esta frase: ... la enfermera pregunta, no quieres saber lo que tienes? Y Lucía responde, "no es lo que estás viendo en mi cuerpo; es lo que está sucediendo en mi alma".
Hoy, después de lo que me sucedió, ya dejé de rehabilitar cuerpos y comencé a rehabilitar almas. En definitiva, son las dos caras de una misma moneda!
Luego les contaré una anécdota con una paciente.
#elsintomanoeslacausa
#elcuerpoexpresaeldolordelalma
#bienestar #alertar #informar #prevenir
#alma #cuerpo  #salud #dolor
#porqueenfermamos
23 2 16 January, 2020

Some sneaky rehearsal photos of #gaslight at @crescenttheatre! Get your tickets below! 🕯🎩 Feb 1-8
Crescent Theatre, Birmingham.
https://www.crescent-theatre.co.uk/theatre-event/?EventID=142731

Some sneaky rehearsal photos of #gaslight at @crescenttheatre! Get your tickets below! 🕯🎩 Feb 1-8
Crescent Theatre, Birmingham.
https://www.crescent-theatre.co.uk/theatre-event/?EventID=142731
41 3 16 January, 2020

Top #gaslight posts

The Gaslight Poster is on sale today! Head over to @MondoNews for more. Gaslight stars @ChloeGMoretz #gaslight #audiodrama #mondo

The Gaslight Poster is on sale today! Head over to @MondoNews for more. Gaslight stars @ChloeGMoretz  #gaslight #audiodrama #mondo
5,365 27 18 November, 2019

Don’t get it twisted. People who do bad things to people are professional gaslighters. They will make themselves a victim almost every time. They will gaslight you and blame it on you when they do something bad to you. Almost without fail. 🙏❤️

Don’t get it twisted. People who do bad things to people are professional gaslighters. They will make themselves a victim almost every time. They will gaslight you and blame it on you when they do something bad to you. Almost without fail. 🙏❤️
13,890 181 9 January, 2020

Check out my new freebie ebook on the #narcissist and #loveaddict in bio. We are so loud about the #narcissisticabuse but we rarely talk about who they attract. The #codependent and #loveaddicted are the victims but both need healing because both come from a history of deep #abandonment wounds. #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness #gaslight #gaslighter #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #loveaddiction #loveaddictzz #addictedtolove #breakupquotes #breakup #breakupedits #codependency #codependentnomore #codependentnomore #codependencyrecovery

Check out my new freebie ebook on the #narcissist and #loveaddict in bio. We are so loud about the #narcissisticabuse but we rarely talk about who they attract. The #codependent and #loveaddicted are the victims but both need healing because both come from a history of deep #abandonment wounds. #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness #gaslight #gaslighter #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #loveaddiction #loveaddictzz #addictedtolove #breakupquotes #breakup #breakupedits #codependency #codependentnomore #codependentnomore #codependencyrecovery
1,410 44 23 July, 2019

Everyone thinks that this could never happen to them, but over time, anyone can break down. If you stay in a relationship with them, you’ll start to question what to believe, doubting yourself to the point of being paralyzed by fear & indecision. •••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••
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3,988 87 28 December, 2019

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As we heal from a toxic marriage or relationship we may feel very delicate, hurt, worn down, etc. I often picture a single bloom that’s trying to re-emerge 🥀 as it’s radiant self but needs shelter from the elements and environment... #npdsurvivor 👉🏼it’s been beat up for so long it’s going to need some protection to get back to it’s healthy state.

❗️Unfortunately... long story short; many times during and post divorce we encounter people who are 👺 nasty, vile toxic people who invade our space and actually set us back in our healing. We may struggle with setting boundaries. We may also have difficulty communicating without becoming emotional. 🗣 We may be gaslighted for speaking about it. We may want to run and hide and find comfort from the battle field.

💔 I think this can cause us to yearn for a safe person and wish we had that in a partner because we need physical comfort (hugs/holding) from someone safe and can’t have it. 😢 We can easily begin to self soothe in unhealthy ways through food, alcohol, isolation etc. 🌼 We have to look for healthy ways to cope. And we have to begin purging our environment of toxic people so we can get to a good place.

💖✨💖 Healing is a really tough process. Attorneys, courts, strangers, bosses and co-workers may cause more trauma. Remember you have come a long way and you are deserving of respect not only in what is said to you but tone. You don’t have to be around ugly people.



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As we heal from a toxic marriage or relationship we  may feel very delicate, hurt, worn down, etc. I often picture a single bloom that’s trying to re-emerge 🥀 as it’s radiant self but needs shelter from the elements and environment... #npdsurvivor 👉🏼it’s been beat up for so long it’s going to need some protection to get back to it’s healthy state.
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❗️Unfortunately... long story short; many times during and post divorce we encounter people who are 👺 nasty, vile toxic people who invade our space and actually set us back in our healing. We may struggle with setting boundaries. We may also have difficulty communicating without becoming emotional. 🗣 We may be gaslighted for speaking about it. We may want to run and hide and find comfort from the battle field.
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💔 I think this can cause us to yearn for a safe person and wish we had that in a partner because we need physical comfort (hugs/holding) from someone safe and can’t have it. 😢 We can easily begin to self soothe in unhealthy ways through food, alcohol, isolation etc. 🌼 We have to look for healthy ways to cope. And we have to begin purging our environment of toxic people so we can get to a good place.
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💖✨💖 Healing is a really tough process. Attorneys, courts, strangers, bosses and co-workers may cause more trauma. Remember you have come a long way and you are deserving of respect not only in what is said to you but tone. You don’t have to be around ugly people.
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Uma das grandes características da pessoa manipuladora, é tentar a todo custo fazer você acreditar que a culpa é sua.
E se você pegar essa culpa para você, a pessoa manipuladora se aproveita do momento emocional para te induzir a agir de acordo com a vontade dela. Quando estiver numa situação como essa, afaste-se um pouco e reflita se você realmente quer assumir a culpa por algo. Deixar as emoções acalmarem e pensar racionalmente pode ajudar muito para você não aceitar a culpa de algo que não é sua responsabilidade.
Não vista algo que NÃO é seu. .
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Um beijo,
Cláu
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#manipuladores #narcisista #narcisismo #relacionamento #relacionamentoabusivo #relacionamentos #autoconhecimento #autocuidado #pararefletir #frasesdereflexao #reflexão

Uma das grandes características da pessoa manipuladora, é tentar a todo custo fazer você acreditar que a culpa é sua. 
E se você pegar essa culpa para você, a pessoa manipuladora se aproveita do momento emocional para te induzir a agir de acordo com a vontade dela. Quando estiver numa situação como essa, afaste-se um pouco e reflita se você realmente quer assumir a culpa por algo. Deixar as emoções acalmarem e pensar racionalmente pode ajudar muito para você não aceitar a culpa de algo que não é sua responsabilidade. 
Não vista algo que NÃO é seu. .
Informações sobre atendimentos on line, favor entrar em contato via direct 
Um beijo,
Cláu
🙋🏼‍♀️
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#manipuladores #narcisista #narcisismo #relacionamento #relacionamentoabusivo #relacionamentos #autoconhecimento #autocuidado #pararefletir #frasesdereflexao #reflexão
6,706 330 23 October, 2019

Okay, you can walk away without saying anything really. But I love adding sassy comebacks so that’s another option. ♥️🤣 Refuse to be gaslighted. Don’t let people convince you that you’re too sensitive. Or that you’re the only one who has ever had a problem with a toxic behavior. This is a key way to make you feel isolated in your conclusions and emotions about what they did. Even if it was true that you were the only person who ever felt or expressed discomfort over their actions (which, if a narcissist is involved, it most certainly ISN’T), it doesn’t take away from the reality and validity of your discomfort and experience. ♥️🙏 —————————————————
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#narcissisticabuse #abuse #sassycomeback #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness #domesticviolence #listentoyourintuition #instinct #gaslight #shahidaarabi

Okay, you can walk away without saying anything really. But I love adding sassy comebacks so that’s another option. ♥️🤣 Refuse to be gaslighted. Don’t let people convince you that you’re too sensitive. Or that you’re the only one who has ever had a problem with a toxic behavior. This is a key way to make you feel isolated in your conclusions and emotions about what they did. Even if it was true that you were the only person who ever felt or expressed discomfort over their actions (which, if a narcissist is involved, it most certainly ISN’T), it doesn’t take away from the reality and validity of your discomfort and experience. ♥️🙏 —————————————————
#manipulation #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #highlysensitiveperson #insensitivepeople 
#narcissisticabuse #abuse #sassycomeback #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness #domesticviolence #listentoyourintuition #instinct #gaslight #shahidaarabi
1,060 19 15 October, 2019