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    [rant] Body shaming is something you get used to as a fat person, like walking through the forest and having branches smack you in the face. The worst is not when folks are outright mean; those people are at least honest enough to out themselves as total dickbags. No, the worst is when complete strangers say, without prompting: "I'm just concerned for his/her/their health," or "I just hope they're healthy." NO YOU DON'T. YOU JUST WISH WE WERE SKINNIER. Just own up to your self-righteous douchebaggery and say, "No, I don't like that, and I think less of them for being fat." Because that is ALL YOU ARE SAYING when you cover your dickish comments with "concern." If you feel like you just HAVE to tell someone that you "really like their cosplay, but you're just concerned for their health," PUT IT IN YOUR DIARY AND SEND IT TO THE MOON. Did you notice I said "complete strangers" up there? That's because friends don't do that to each other. If you're wondering, "But I AM genuinely concerned about my friend's health, what do I say?" I suggest you don't, unless they broach the topic. I have been blessed with some wonderful friends who have been supportive of me at all sizes, and when I feel comfortable enough to express a desire for change, they are encouraging but not pushy. YOU CANNOT CHANGE YOUR FRIENDS. JUST BE THEIR FRIEND. [/rant] . Photo by @shannolynnphotography Hat design by @mckeedigital . . #bodypositive #cospositive #bodypos #fat #fatshaming #effyourbeautystandards #pampoovey #pampooveycosplay #pamcosplay #sploosh #dangerisland #archerfxx #archer #pam

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    Body shaming is something you get used to as a fat person, like walking through the forest and having branches smack you in the face.
    The worst is not when folks are outright mean; those people are at least honest enough to out themselves as total dickbags.
    No, the worst is when complete strangers say, without prompting: "I'm just concerned for his/her/their health," or "I just hope they're healthy." NO YOU DON'T. YOU JUST WISH WE WERE SKINNIER. Just own up to your self-righteous douchebaggery and say, "No, I don't like that, and I think less of them for being fat." Because that is ALL YOU ARE SAYING when you cover your dickish comments with "concern." If you feel like you just HAVE to tell someone that you "really like their cosplay, but you're just concerned for their health," PUT IT IN YOUR DIARY AND SEND IT TO THE MOON.
    Did you notice I said "complete strangers" up there? That's because friends don't do that to each other.
    If you're wondering, "But I AM genuinely concerned about my friend's health, what do I say?" I suggest you don't, unless they broach the topic. I have been blessed with some wonderful friends who have been supportive of me at all sizes, and when I feel comfortable enough to express a desire for change, they are encouraging but not pushy. YOU CANNOT CHANGE YOUR FRIENDS. JUST BE THEIR FRIEND.
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    Photo by @shannolynnphotography
    Hat design by @mckeedigital .
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    #bodypositive #cospositive #bodypos #fat #fatshaming #effyourbeautystandards #pampoovey #pampooveycosplay #pamcosplay #sploosh #dangerisland #archerfxx #archer #pam

    149 32 30 August, 2018
    SAPPY POST TIME. SO THIS LOVELY HUMAN PICTURED WITH ME IS @realkikielise. She is wonderful in every way possible. We met at a promo shoot for River Con in 2017. Then the next time we saw each other was at Cosplay beach party as Ariel and Ursula. It would seem a lot of our friendship and a lot of our memories are around water, given as we did a photoshoot with the talented @realneptunemedia a few months ago as Pam and random Elf. Anyyywayyyyy, a few months ago she asked me to go on a journey with her and start our podcast @cosplayconfidential, through which we've met so many other amazing cosplayers and made amazing memories along the way. While, Kiki has only been in my life a short while I am so lucky to have such a wonderful friend, co-host, and con-aunt. She has been there for me through calm and harsh waters, and she inspires me so much in many ways. Like being confident in myself and not letting others get me down. Thank you Kiki, for being a role model to me and for being such a strong woman. 💖💖💖💖 #pam #pampoovey #archer #sploosh #elf #ariel #mermaid #ursula #thelittlemermaid #cosplay #cosplayconfidential

    SAPPY POST TIME.
    SO THIS LOVELY HUMAN PICTURED WITH ME IS @realkikielise .
    She is wonderful in every way possible. We met at a promo shoot for River Con in 2017. Then the next time we saw each other was at Cosplay beach party as Ariel and Ursula. It would seem a lot of our friendship and a lot of our memories are around water, given as we did a photoshoot with the talented @realneptunemedia a few months ago as Pam and random Elf. Anyyywayyyyy, a few months ago she asked me to go on a journey with her and start our podcast @cosplayconfidential , through which we've met so many other amazing cosplayers and made amazing memories along the way. While, Kiki has only been in my life a short while I am so lucky to have such a wonderful friend, co-host, and con-aunt. She has been there for me through calm and harsh waters, and she inspires me so much in many ways. Like being confident in myself and not letting others get me down.
    Thank you Kiki, for being a role model to me and for being such a strong woman.
    💖💖💖💖
    #pam #pampoovey #archer #sploosh #elf #ariel #mermaid #ursula #thelittlemermaid #cosplay #cosplayconfidential

    133 6 29 August, 2018
    Pam is my body goals 💖 #pampoovey

    Pam is my body goals 💖 #pampoovey

    20 0 25 August, 2018
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