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337 14 20 February, 2020

💦 FAKING ORGASMS 💦
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When you fake an orgasm, I believe three “betrayals” or emotional deaths, one could say, occur 🙅🏼‍♀️…
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First, you harm yourself. And there are several layers to this one, depending on the “why” behind your faking. Maybe you don’t think you’re worth going the extra mile for. Maybe you feel you take up too much space. Maybe you want him to feel proud of himself. Maybe you want to get it over with instead of changing the motion and making it more pleasing. Maybe you’re overthinking it so much you don’t even have pleasure. Maybe you are uncomfortable and the sooner it’s over, the sooner you can feel comfortable again. This can be DEEPLY subconscious.
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Secondly, he is betrayed. Not by you, necessarily, but by Truth. He’s thinking something works that really doesn’t. He’s thinking women orgasm fast, like men, and he’s forming an expectation. He’s also feeling intimate with you based off of a lie, which for him, WOULD feel like betrayal if he knew it. Underneath the betrayal is pain … pain that he didn’t have the opportunity to give you what he wanted to give you. Most men, good men, actually want to give you pleasure — and it hurts when they can’t trust you.
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Third, every time a woman fakes an orgasm, she’s doing a disservice to the gender. Bear with me here. In movies and media, women orgasm so fast. From there, many of us out of shame think we should do the same! It makes complete sense and there is no shame, blame or judgement here, my love, but rather an invitation to altogether undo this patriarchal pattern.
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It may be uncomfortable. It may come with having to take up even more space. It may require patience. It may come with more conversation around what feels good and what doesn’t.
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But remember, this is a gift to you first and foremost. Maybe not always the gift of an orgasm, but the gift of being truthful.
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How he responds to you body and truth will be incredibly telling of your emotional safety together. When you entire this space of complete transparency a LOT may be revealed.
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Have more questions on this? 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼
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📷 @hanna_panchenko

💦 FAKING ORGASMS 💦
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When you fake an orgasm, I believe three “betrayals” or emotional deaths, one could say, occur 🙅🏼‍♀️…
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First, you harm yourself. And there are several layers to this one, depending on the “why” behind your faking. Maybe you don’t think you’re worth going the extra mile for. Maybe you feel you take up too much space. Maybe you want him to feel proud of himself. Maybe you want to get it over with instead of changing the motion and making it more pleasing. Maybe you’re overthinking it so much you don’t even have pleasure. Maybe you are uncomfortable and the sooner it’s over, the sooner you can feel comfortable again. This can be DEEPLY subconscious.
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Secondly, he is betrayed. Not by you, necessarily, but by Truth. He’s thinking something works that really doesn’t. He’s thinking women orgasm fast, like men, and he’s forming an expectation. He’s also feeling intimate with you based off of a lie, which for him, WOULD feel like betrayal if he knew it. Underneath the betrayal is pain … pain that he didn’t have the opportunity to give you what he wanted to give you. Most men, good men, actually want to give you pleasure — and it hurts when they can’t trust you.
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Third, every time a woman fakes an orgasm, she’s doing a disservice to the gender. Bear with me here. In movies and media, women orgasm so fast. From there, many of us out of shame think we should do the same! It makes complete sense and there is no shame, blame or judgement here, my love, but rather an invitation to altogether undo this patriarchal pattern.
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It may be uncomfortable. It may come with having to take up even more space. It may require patience. It may come with more conversation around what feels good and what doesn’t.
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But remember, this is a gift to you first and foremost. Maybe not always the gift of an orgasm, but the gift of being truthful.
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How he responds to you body and truth will be incredibly telling of your emotional safety together. When you entire this space of complete transparency a LOT may be revealed.
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Have more questions on this? 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼
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📷 @hanna_panchenko
828 45 17 February, 2020

Alyssa Monks is an American painter currently based out of Brooklyn. She specialized in large oil paintings and is recognized both in the United States and Europe for her pieces including figures obscured by water, steam, and vinyl.

There is a beautiful sensuality to Monk’s luscious figurative paintings. Her subjects are often presented with barriers between themselves and the viewer, and are rendered with vibrant color. The presence of water calls to mind ancient symbols of creation, fertility, protection and sexuality.
#alyssamonks #alyssamonksart #artist #bysaharinc #curatedbysahar #modernism #fertility #bysaharcurated #sexuality #protection #americanartist #brooklyn #oilpainting #sensual #portraitphotography

Alyssa Monks is an American painter currently based out of Brooklyn. She specialized in large oil paintings and is recognized both in the United States and Europe for her pieces including figures obscured by water, steam, and vinyl.

There is a beautiful sensuality to Monk’s luscious figurative paintings. Her subjects are often presented with barriers between themselves and the viewer, and are rendered with vibrant color. The presence of water calls to mind ancient symbols of creation, fertility, protection and sexuality.
#alyssamonks #alyssamonksart #artist #bysaharinc #curatedbysahar #modernism #fertility #bysaharcurated #sexuality #protection #americanartist #brooklyn #oilpainting #sensual #portraitphotography
154 3 20 February, 2020

Il y a quelques mois, on vous parlait en story de la série @sexeducation, pour laquelle nous avons eu un réel coup de cœur 😍. Cette série @netflixfr aborde avec humour, émotion, bienveillance et pédagogie le sujet de la sexualité pendant l'adolescence. Au rendez-vous, des thématiques auxquelles nous sommes confronté.e.s (de près ou de loin) pendant notre adolescence et vie d'adulte : orientation sexuelle, menstruations, harcèlement, rapport au corps, agressions sexuelles ou encore pratiques sexuelles 🍑

Pour le lancement de la saison 2, Netflix a collaboré avec @charlotteabramow pour réaliser "Le Petit Manuel Sex Education". Et vous voulez savoir la meilleure ? Le guide est 100% gratuit 💸
Au programme : consentement, orientation sexuelle, anatomie, relation avec son corps, règles, masturbation et bien d'autres. Et tout ceci, abordé sans détour et sans tabou ! C'est ainsi que depuis quelques semaines, clitoris, protections périodiques et baisers entre hommes ont envahi les stations de métro et nos rues ✊
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📷 @charlotteabramow
💁🏻 @emmatmackey

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infos pratiques :
🎥 Sex Education, à regarder sur Netflix
📔 Le Petit Manuel Sex Education, guide 100% gratuit à se procurer en version numérique sur sexeducation.fr

#netflix #netflixandchill #sexeducation #emmatmackey #sexuality #menstruation #feelgooddansmaculotte

Il y a quelques mois, on vous parlait en story de la série @sexeducation, pour laquelle nous avons eu un réel coup de cœur 😍. Cette série @netflixfr aborde avec humour, émotion, bienveillance et pédagogie le sujet de la sexualité pendant l'adolescence. Au rendez-vous, des thématiques auxquelles nous sommes confronté.e.s (de près ou de loin) pendant notre adolescence et vie d'adulte : orientation sexuelle, menstruations, harcèlement, rapport au corps, agressions sexuelles ou encore pratiques sexuelles 🍑

Pour le lancement de la saison 2, Netflix a collaboré avec @charlotteabramow pour réaliser "Le Petit Manuel Sex Education". Et vous voulez savoir la meilleure ? Le guide est 100% gratuit 💸
Au programme : consentement, orientation sexuelle, anatomie, relation avec son corps, règles, masturbation et bien d'autres. Et tout ceci, abordé sans détour et sans tabou ! C'est ainsi que depuis quelques semaines, clitoris, protections périodiques et baisers entre hommes ont envahi les stations de métro et nos rues ✊
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📷 @charlotteabramow
💁🏻 @emmatmackey

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infos pratiques :
🎥 Sex Education, à regarder sur Netflix
📔 Le Petit Manuel Sex Education, guide 100% gratuit à se procurer en version numérique sur sexeducation.fr

#netflix #netflixandchill #sexeducation #emmatmackey #sexuality #menstruation #feelgooddansmaculotte
5,115 21 10 February, 2020

Discrete, a solo show by Sara Anstis is opening next week at NEVVEN.
The first solo show in almost a year by Swedish-Canadian artist Sara Anstis, featuring new works on paper and ceramics in an immersive installation is opening at the gallery next Thursday, February 27 and will be anticipated by an artist-talk at Göteborgs Stadsbiblioteket this Monday, February 24.

Do not hesitate to contact the gallery for more information or receiving the web catalog of the show.

@saraanstis @stadsbiblioteketgbg #saraanstis #saraanstisdiscrete #discrete #nevvengallery #contemporaryart #art #artcollector #visitgothenburg #göteborg #artlovers #openingday #soloexhibition #photography #drawing #sculpture #sexuality #erotic #contemporary #artsy #konst #artstagram #painting #figuration #myth #instagram #ceramic #printedmatter #comingsoon #visitgothenburg #visitsweden

Discrete, a solo show by Sara Anstis is opening next week at NEVVEN. 
The first solo show in almost a year by Swedish-Canadian artist Sara Anstis, featuring new works on paper and ceramics in an immersive installation is opening at the gallery next Thursday, February 27 and will be anticipated by an artist-talk at Göteborgs Stadsbiblioteket this Monday, February 24.

Do not hesitate to contact the gallery for more information or receiving the web catalog of the show.

@saraanstis @stadsbiblioteketgbg #saraanstis #saraanstisdiscrete #discrete #nevvengallery #contemporaryart #art #artcollector #visitgothenburg #göteborg #artlovers #openingday #soloexhibition #photography #drawing #sculpture #sexuality #erotic #contemporary #artsy #konst #artstagram #painting #figuration #myth #instagram #ceramic #printedmatter #comingsoon #visitgothenburg #visitsweden
108 3 20 February, 2020

Enough of the teddy bears, flowers, and candy. Get yourself what you REALLY want this Valentine’s Day! (Psssst I’m talking about an orgasm 👀😏) with @bellesaco . Use code VDAY at check out to get 30% off so you can #BeYourOwnValentine 💗😘 Pro-Tip get the ‘Nirvana’ if you’re tryna forget your name and what year it is. 🙃👌🏾👀

Enough of the teddy bears, flowers, and candy. Get yourself what you REALLY want this Valentine’s Day! (Psssst I’m talking about an orgasm 👀😏) with @bellesaco . Use code VDAY at check out to get 30% off so you can #BeYourOwnValentine 💗😘 Pro-Tip get the ‘Nirvana’ if you’re tryna forget your name and what year it is. 🙃👌🏾👀
820 64 14 February, 2020

Tough question: does your partner keep it interesting? New research shows that in a heteronormative monogamous relationships women get bored within 1-4 years (plot twist 🤯) of the beginning of the relationship. So it’s worth asking the question - is your libido low because you’re bored or something else? Most women have been taught that somehow it’s shameful or dirty to have a high libido, that their low libido is their fault or not normal...not the case, sis. Educate yourself so you can be sexually empowered. You and your pleasure are worth it. -
If women’s sexuality is more fickle that doesn’t mean she doesn’t need much excitement.
In fact, it means that she needs more risky, more plot, more seduction, more playfulness to get into it.
In order to remain interested, it needs to be interesting. - Esther Perel. PS - take a creepy picture with me and it’ll end up on the gram. 😂

Tough question: does your partner keep it interesting? New research shows that in a heteronormative monogamous relationships women get bored within 1-4 years (plot twist 🤯) of the beginning of the relationship. So it’s worth asking the question - is your libido low because you’re bored or something else? Most women have been taught that somehow it’s shameful or dirty to have a high libido, that their low libido is their fault or not normal...not the case, sis. Educate yourself so you can be sexually empowered. You and your pleasure are worth it. -
If women’s sexuality is more fickle that doesn’t mean she doesn’t need much excitement. 
In fact, it means that she needs more risky, more plot, more seduction, more playfulness to get into it. 
In order to remain interested, it needs to be interesting. - Esther Perel. PS - take a creepy picture with me and it’ll end up on the gram. 😂
103 10 20 February, 2020

Here's a new way for you to view and use cardamom!
Cardamom is widely used as a culinary spice in Middle Eastern, SE Asian, and perhaps surprisingly Scandinavian cooking, and it is among the world’s most expensive spices on a weight/lb basis! 💰

Fortunately, a little of this potent powerhouse goes a long way! As a digestive ally, cardamom can help to restore the appetite, and it may be useful to restore your other appetites, as well! 😉

Its dispersive nature allows energy to move more freely through the body, and it has a long tradition of use as an aphrodisiac. In #Ayurveda, cardamom has the action of vajikarana, or increasing sexual potency and overall virility (1). This powerful spice was one ingredient in our Cleopatra’s Love Bites recipe that we shared last week... 😘 Want to learn more about #Cardomom as an aphrodisiac along with more herbal allies that are sure to heat things up in the bedroom? Join us in our HERBAL APHRODISIACS INTENSIVE, a 3-part series that will have you whipping up the Herbal Academy's favorite aphrodisiac recipes – concocted to inspire feelings of sensuality, sexuality, and intimacy! We’re including plant monographs for your learning and experimentation PLUS 14 tasty recipes that contain these featured aphrodisiac herbs from herbal teas, cordials, tinctures, to even sensual body care recipes. They are all highly adaptable to your personal preferences! 🌹
Humans not only have the ability to reproduce, we also have the ability to be sexual. We welcome you to explore your sexual expression and get intimate with herbal #aphrodisiacs and herbal love potions in this positively exciting series! Sign up for the Herbal Aphrodisiacs Intensive using the LINK IN OUR PROFILE – it won’t disappoint! 💋 (1): Ayurvedic medicine: Principles of traditional practice. .
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#elettariacardamomum #spice #scandinaviancooking #middleeasterncooking #culinaryspice #aphrodisiac #spiceitup #herbalaphrodisiac #remedies #valentinesday #vdayrecipe #romance #sexuality #intimacy #aphrodisiacrecipe #myherbalstudies #herbalacademy #herbalist #herbalism #botanicals #plantmedicine #herbalmedicine #naturesmedicine #herbalists #plantlove #medicinal

Here's a new way for you to view and use cardamom!
Cardamom is widely used as a culinary spice in Middle Eastern, SE Asian, and perhaps surprisingly Scandinavian cooking, and it is among the world’s most expensive spices on a weight/lb basis! 💰

Fortunately, a little of this potent powerhouse goes a long way! As a digestive ally, cardamom can help to restore the appetite, and it may be useful to restore your other appetites, as well! 😉

Its dispersive nature allows energy to move more freely through the body, and it has a long tradition of use as an aphrodisiac. In #Ayurveda, cardamom has the action of vajikarana, or increasing sexual potency and overall virility (1). This powerful spice was one ingredient in our Cleopatra’s Love Bites recipe that we shared last week... 😘 Want to learn more about #Cardomom as an aphrodisiac along with more herbal allies that are sure to heat things up in the bedroom? Join us in our HERBAL APHRODISIACS INTENSIVE, a 3-part series that will have you whipping up the Herbal Academy's favorite aphrodisiac recipes – concocted to inspire feelings of sensuality, sexuality, and intimacy! We’re including plant monographs for your learning and experimentation PLUS 14 tasty recipes that contain these featured aphrodisiac herbs from herbal teas, cordials, tinctures, to even sensual body care recipes. They are all highly adaptable to your personal preferences! 🌹
Humans not only have the ability to reproduce, we also have the ability to be sexual. We welcome you to explore your sexual expression and get intimate with herbal #aphrodisiacs and herbal love potions in this positively exciting series! Sign up for the Herbal Aphrodisiacs Intensive using the LINK IN OUR PROFILE – it won’t disappoint! 💋 (1): Ayurvedic medicine: Principles of traditional practice. .
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#elettariacardamomum #spice #scandinaviancooking #middleeasterncooking #culinaryspice #aphrodisiac #spiceitup #herbalaphrodisiac  #remedies #valentinesday #vdayrecipe #romance #sexuality #intimacy #aphrodisiacrecipe #myherbalstudies #herbalacademy #herbalist #herbalism #botanicals #plantmedicine  #herbalmedicine #naturesmedicine  #herbalists #plantlove #medicinal
3,025 37 10 February, 2020

I’ve taught sex ed for 7 years and I finally have a picture of me holding a sex toy! As you can tell by the pictures I’m very excited about it, until I realized I couldn’t turn it off. So I left it on the table and ignored it for the rest of the presentation 🙃
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I’m thankful I was one of the presenters last Thursday at the @franklininstitute event. It’s exciting to see more spaces, whether it be wellness, technology, etc., acknowledging that sexuality is a vital part of the human experience. It’s also exciting when I have an opportunity to show people that black and brown folks have been and continue to do great work in this field. A big shoutout goes to @timbalingling for curating this event and intentionally picking a diverse group of presenters. A bigger shoutout goes to the 800+ people that came out, played my games, and laughed at my stupid jokes.
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📸: @theofficialjasj

I’ve taught sex ed for 7 years and I finally have a picture of me holding a sex toy! As you can tell by the pictures I’m very excited about it, until I realized I couldn’t turn it off. So I left it on the table and ignored it for the rest of the presentation 🙃
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I’m thankful I was one of the presenters last Thursday at the @franklininstitute event. It’s exciting to see more spaces, whether it be wellness, technology, etc., acknowledging that sexuality is a vital part of the human experience.  It’s also exciting when I have an opportunity to show people that black and brown folks have been and continue to do great work in this field. A big shoutout goes to @timbalingling for curating this event and intentionally picking a diverse group of presenters. A bigger shoutout goes to the 800+ people that came out, played my games, and laughed at my stupid jokes.
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📸: @theofficialjasj
249 22 17 February, 2020

I'm tired of fighting.
I'm tired of debating our existence.
I just want to be ME.
I'm so, so, grateful for the vessel that is my body, and I have never felt more comfortable

But gender, gender is such a rigid construct. I want it to be known that who I am, is not solely based on my genitalia, nor will it ever be. Tell it to the little kid who peed standing up at 3, the kid who refused dresses by kindergarten.

This is what transgender looks like, and we aren't going anywhere.

My name is Alex Perry, I am transgender, and I am proud to be visible.

I'm tired of fighting.
I'm tired of debating our existence.
I just want to be ME.
I'm so, so, grateful for the vessel that is my body, and I have never felt more comfortable

But gender, gender is such a rigid construct. I want it to be known that who I am, is not solely based on my genitalia, nor will it ever be. Tell it to the little kid who peed standing up at 3, the kid who refused dresses by kindergarten.

This is what transgender looks like, and we aren't going anywhere.

My name is Alex Perry, I am transgender, and I am proud to be visible.
132 10 14 February, 2020

#throwbackSrilanka Tx G, A, and G for the awesome week together😘 #nofilter. And Tx @goodiesn for the pic🙏
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Water!! The element that governs the 2nd chakra, sacral chakra. And the chakra that governs our emotions, sexuality and creativity. The ancients studied that these 3 elements are all linked, one cannot be healthy without the other 2 aspects also being healthy. This means that if you’re sexual self is not happy, your creative and emotional selves are impacted too
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So I’d like to draw attention to how I love it when people call me highly sexual and highly creative but I cringe a little when someone says I am highly emotional😂. In fact I just noticed that the icon for the word “emotional” is 😭. Now that’s discrimination🤭 As a human being, how can I not be emotional? It’s the darker emotions, the anger, the jealousy, the grief that I think we may have have grown to suppress and label as “emotional”. By doing so we also limit the thriving of joyful, sexy emotions. So, for the sake of being more Creative and more sexual, I allow myself to be emotional!! Yes, I am emotional! I love showing off when I’m happy and I’m working on showing off when I’m sad too! Both are needed, both count💪
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Happy New Moon weekend all, our emotions are really being tested right now, find a watery outlet and set your emotions free!! Lots of ❤️
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#authenticity #selflove #goldenage #surrendertotheflow #dharma #spirituality #inspiration #spiritofecstasy #kundalini #beyou #chakra #divinefeminine #divinemasculine #flow #wombwisdom #sexuality #creativity #sacralchakra #newmoon

#throwbackSrilanka Tx G, A, and G for the awesome week together😘 #nofilter. And Tx @goodiesn for the pic🙏
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Water!! The element that governs the 2nd chakra, sacral chakra. And the chakra that governs our emotions, sexuality and creativity. The ancients studied that these 3 elements are all linked, one cannot be healthy without the other 2 aspects also being healthy. This means that if you’re sexual self is not happy, your creative and emotional selves are impacted too
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So I’d like to draw attention to how I love it when people call me highly sexual and highly creative but I cringe a little when someone says I am highly emotional😂. In fact I just noticed that the icon for the word “emotional” is 😭. Now that’s discrimination🤭 As a human being, how can I not be emotional? It’s the darker emotions, the anger, the jealousy, the grief that I think we may have have grown to suppress and label as “emotional”. By doing so we also limit the thriving of joyful, sexy emotions. So, for the sake of being more Creative and more sexual, I allow myself to be emotional!! Yes, I am emotional! I love showing off when I’m happy and I’m working on showing off when I’m sad too! Both are needed, both count💪
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Happy New Moon weekend all, our emotions are really being tested right now, find a watery outlet and set your emotions free!! Lots of ❤️
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#authenticity #selflove #goldenage #surrendertotheflow #dharma #spirituality #inspiration #spiritofecstasy #kundalini #beyou #chakra #divinefeminine #divinemasculine #flow #wombwisdom #sexuality #creativity #sacralchakra #newmoon
106 5 20 February, 2020

The #mermaid is a mythological symbol that represents a #woman who’s comfortable in the great waters of life. The waters of emotion, #spirituality, and #sexuality. She shows us how to embrace our instinctive #sensuality, so that we can appreciate the essence of our #feminine nature, the wisdom of our #beautiful bodies, and the playfulness of our spirits. She symbolizes our connection with our deepest feelings, and our #wild, and untamed animal nature, that exists below the surface, of outward appearances. She’s able to respond to her mysterious sexual impulses without shame, or abandoning her more human, conscious side. What happened to the girls who dreamed of being mermaids? 🧜🏽‍♀️☀️🌊💦 #lovetheskinyourein #freedom #femeninity #loveyourself #selflove #confidence #strength #innerpeace #courage #vulnerability #bodylove #beauty #selfacceptance #selfawareness #selfappreciation #beach #goals #miamibeach #miami

The #mermaid is a mythological symbol that represents a #woman who’s comfortable in the great waters of life. The waters of emotion, #spirituality, and #sexuality. She shows us how to embrace our instinctive #sensuality, so that we can appreciate the essence of our #feminine nature, the wisdom of our #beautiful bodies, and the playfulness of our spirits. She symbolizes our connection with our deepest feelings, and our #wild, and untamed animal nature, that exists below the surface, of outward appearances. She’s able to respond to her mysterious sexual impulses without shame, or abandoning her more human, conscious side. What happened to the girls who dreamed of being mermaids? 🧜🏽‍♀️☀️🌊💦 #lovetheskinyourein #freedom #femeninity #loveyourself #selflove #confidence #strength #innerpeace #courage #vulnerability #bodylove #beauty #selfacceptance #selfawareness #selfappreciation #beach #goals #miamibeach #miami
103 17 19 February, 2020

"It's a hard act to follow this book, it's very likely to be my non-fiction book of the year."⠀

"Absolutely fascinating book."⠀

"A total delight to read!"⠀

"I LOVED THIS BOOK."⠀

Readers are loving Kate Lister's #ACuriousHistoyOfSex. Get yours via the link in our bio now.⠀


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126 3 21 February, 2020

Do you feel it or maybe you hear the voice within?⠀

You know there is something more⠀

Maybe you know you have a greater purpose⠀

Maybe you’re curious to explore the depths of your sexuality and pleasure but not quite sure if you’re worthy or deserving of it.⠀

Or maybe you don’t even know what you desire!⠀

I so get it!! ⠀

For most of my life I did not fully believe in myself. I was full of self-doubt and insecurity. I was afraid to fully be seen and connect deeply with others. I didn’t make my pleasure a priority. ⠀

Through exploring our pleasure we find our desires. ⠀

Through exploring our desires we find a greater purpose. ⠀

When we connect to our pleasure, our pussy, our turn-on; a light turns on. ⠀

Through the light you will discover an incredible amount of confidence, love, worthiness and so much more. ⠀

P.S. You already have all this within you! ⠀


In love and pleasure! 💋⠀⠀
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Through exploring our pleasure we find our desires. ⠀
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Through exploring our desires we find a greater purpose. ⠀
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When we connect to our pleasure, our pussy, our turn-on; a light turns on. ⠀
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Through the light you will discover an incredible amount of confidence, love, worthiness and so much more. ⠀
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P.S. You already have all this within you! ⠀
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In love and pleasure! 💋⠀⠀
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#Empowered #coach #pleasure #selfpleasure #wisdom #feminine #pussypower #sexmagic #womensupportingwomen #breathwork #tantra #tantricsex #personalgrowth #sexuality #empowermentcoach #sexualitycoach #rewild #heidirevay #confident #alive #sexy
132 13 16 February, 2020

Let it all go and allow it to flow 💜

Let it all go and allow it to flow 💜
216 8 9 February, 2020

Our true essence is L O V E ⠀

Behind the walls that surround our heart lies a deep yearning to connect and love. ⠀

The walls feel like resistance, harshness and bitterness. The walls keep us isolated, lonely and usually an arms length away. They tell the lies so that we don’t disappoint loved ones. They gossip and put blame on the outside world because looking within feels too painful. ⠀

We were not born with these walls. They were slowly constructed after we had an experience of not feeling loved or safe; so we slowly began to hide our true self. ⠀

These walls have served a great purpose to protect us and keep us safe, at one point. ⠀

The beautiful thing is we don’t have to live the rest of our lives this way. ⠀

Through the somatic work I’ve been practicing and teaching, I have myself experienced and seen in others how it changes the nervous system and deconstructs the walls. ⠀

On the other side is FREEDOM! A freedom to be your true self, connect and love. ⠀

Are you tired of living at an arms length? ⠀

Are ready to soften, are you ready to live from love? ⠀

I am here. I am here to love. ⠀

Link in Bio if you’re curious. ⠀

In love and pleasure! 💋⠀⠀
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#Empowered #changemaker #coach #pleasure #selfpleasure #powerfulwomen #wisdom #sisterhood #feminine #pussypower #sexmagic #womensupportingwomen #breathwork #tantra #tantricsex #personalgrowth #bosslady #sexuality #empowermentcoach #sexualitycoach #rewild #heidirevay #pleasureworkshop

Our true essence is L O V E ⠀
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Behind the walls that surround our heart lies a deep yearning to connect and love. ⠀
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The walls feel like resistance, harshness and bitterness.  The walls keep us isolated, lonely and usually an arms length away.  They tell the lies so that we don’t disappoint loved ones.  They gossip and put blame on the outside world because looking within feels too painful. ⠀
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We were not born with these walls.  They were slowly constructed after we had an experience of not feeling loved or safe; so we slowly began to hide our true self. ⠀
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These walls have served a great purpose to protect us and keep us safe, at one point. ⠀
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The beautiful thing is we don’t have to live the rest of our lives this way. ⠀
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Through the somatic work I’ve been practicing and teaching, I have myself experienced and seen in others how it changes the nervous system and deconstructs the walls. ⠀
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On the other side is FREEDOM!  A freedom to be your true self, connect and love. ⠀
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Are you tired of living at an arms length? ⠀
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Are ready to soften, are you ready to live from love? ⠀
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I am here.  I am here to love. ⠀
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Link in Bio if you’re curious. ⠀
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In love and pleasure! 💋⠀⠀
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Photo: @jennysath 🖤⠀
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#Empowered #changemaker #coach #pleasure #selfpleasure #powerfulwomen #wisdom #sisterhood #feminine #pussypower #sexmagic #womensupportingwomen #breathwork #tantra #tantricsex #personalgrowth #bosslady #sexuality #empowermentcoach #sexualitycoach #rewild #heidirevay #pleasureworkshop
165 40 7 February, 2020

It is easy to get a man’s attention and lust going for you… and it will only attract a man’s attention and lust back. ⁣

But ask yourself, what do you really want? His attention or emotional connection?⁣

When we have an unhealed abandonment wound, we can show up bypassing our own heart, and resort to attention seeking behavior to get a man’s desire going. ⁣

Underneath it we don’t trust that we are enough to be loved, so we compensate by “putting it all out there” and it only attracts low value men who are equally desperate for a woman’s attention, or are only after sex…⁣

A high value woman who wants to prioritize building an emotional connection with a man does just that, she builds an emotional connection from her heart… shows genuine curiosity about who he is, what makes him tick, and looks for a man who shows equal interest in genuinely getting to know her.⁣

It is a sign of having healed within when a woman can exude a deep connection to her sexuality and sexual power, while also still embrace the allure of feminine elegance. This balance is what truly drives a man wild and inspires him to want to pursue a woman as “his”… ⁣

She has something she isn’t willing to give to just any and every man... and this arouses in him the thrill of discovering the mystery of the feminine that she embodies.⁣ .⁣
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#relationships #relationshipcoach #sexuality #selfworth #selflove #abandonmentwound #love #intimacy #singlegirl #singlegrilprobs #singlemom #female #feminine #magnetic #magneticfeminine

It is easy to get a man’s attention and lust going for you… and it will only attract a man’s attention and lust back. ⁣
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But ask yourself, what do you really want? His attention or emotional connection?⁣
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When we have an unhealed abandonment wound, we can show up bypassing our own heart, and resort to attention seeking behavior to get a man’s desire going. ⁣
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Underneath it we don’t trust that we are enough to be loved, so we compensate by “putting it all out there” and it only attracts low value men who are equally desperate for a woman’s attention, or are only after sex…⁣
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A high value woman who wants to prioritize building an emotional connection with a man does just that, she builds an emotional connection from her heart… shows genuine curiosity about who he is, what makes him tick, and looks for a man who shows equal interest in genuinely getting to know her.⁣
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It is a sign of having healed within when a woman can exude a deep connection to her sexuality and sexual power, while also still embrace the allure of feminine elegance. This balance is what truly drives a man wild and inspires him to want to pursue a woman as “his”… ⁣
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She has something she isn’t willing to give to just any and every man... and this arouses in him the thrill of discovering the mystery of the feminine that she embodies.⁣ .⁣
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#relationships #relationshipcoach #sexuality #selfworth #selflove #abandonmentwound #love #intimacy #singlegirl #singlegrilprobs #singlemom #female #feminine #magnetic #magneticfeminine
339 9 15 February, 2020

There is very little research on why sex can be painful for women — and even less on how women should deal with it. Lily staff writer Caroline Kitchener talked to 16 women who experience painful sex. “Many said they waited months or years before consulting a doctor, and some never have,” she writes. “When sex hurts, ‘large proportions’ of women don’t even tell their partners.” Check out the link in bio. (Illustration by @mariaalconadabrooks)

There is very little research on why sex can be painful for women — and even less on how women should deal with it. Lily staff writer Caroline Kitchener talked to 16 women who experience painful sex. “Many said they waited months or years before consulting a doctor, and some never have,” she writes. “When sex hurts, ‘large proportions’ of women don’t even tell their partners.” Check out the link in bio. (Illustration by @mariaalconadabrooks)
2,387 35 8 February, 2020

And if you’re going to share an honest and raw frustration with me, hopefully you know you don’t have to justify the comment with “I love my kids to the moon and back...”. I know you do. And I also know it’s hard AF.

And if you’re going to share an honest and raw frustration with me, hopefully you know you don’t have to justify the comment with “I love my kids to the moon and back...”. I know you do. And I also know it’s hard AF.
179 9 16 February, 2020

It’s time for a new HEROINE of the week and this week it’s all about Daan Borrel. Daan is a freelance journalist, author and has given several talks about sexuality and culture. She writes for @decorrespondent @nrchandelsblad and @hetparool among others. She has written two books, ‘Soms is liefde dit’, a letter about body, sex and desire; available for sale at bol.com.

2020 started with a bang, with the launch of her new book ‘Jaar van het nieuwe verhaal’, a book in which she breaks down and rebuilds the stories about femininity, time and connection. More about this inspiring woman on her page @daanborrel or her website daanborrel.nl. 📷: Daan Borrel. #sexuality #jaarvanhetnieuweverhaal #somsisliefdedit #freelancejournalist #heroineoftheweek #heroinenl

It’s time for a new HEROINE of the week and this week it’s all about Daan Borrel. Daan is a freelance journalist, author and has given several talks about sexuality and culture. She writes for @decorrespondent @nrchandelsblad and @hetparool among others. She has written two books, ‘Soms is liefde dit’, a letter about body, sex and desire; available for sale at bol.com.

2020 started with a bang, with the launch of her new book ‘Jaar van het nieuwe verhaal’, a book in which she breaks down and rebuilds the stories about femininity, time and connection. More about this inspiring woman on her page @daanborrel or her website daanborrel.nl. 📷: Daan Borrel.  #sexuality  #jaarvanhetnieuweverhaal #somsisliefdedit #freelancejournalist #heroineoftheweek #heroinenl
108 1 19 February, 2020

What was the hardest part of coming out? 🏳️‍🌈

Coming out is a long process full of ups and downs and can be a traumatic experience often made worse by the actions of others. Sadly this is the reality of coming out even in 2020.

It’s heartbreaking LGBTQ+ individuals go through this, but always remember that you’re not alone and by sharing our own experiences it can help others going through similar things ♥️

Graphic: @charlsummersuk
Theme: Coming Out

What was the hardest part of coming out? 🏳️‍🌈
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Coming out is a long process full of ups and downs and can be a traumatic experience often made worse by the actions of others. Sadly this is the reality of coming out even in 2020.
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It’s heartbreaking LGBTQ+ individuals go through this, but always remember that you’re not alone and by sharing our own experiences it can help others going through similar things ♥️
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Theme: Coming Out
532 80 11 February, 2020

Love this! Already talking to my boys about: avoidant dating patterns, ghosting, the value in open communication, self love to draw in healthy relationships, real intimacy vs porn (with older son) and so much more. They laugh at my #lessonsinthecar but hopefully someday they will NOT be “heart breakers” and will experience the beauty and rawness of deep, more meaningful connections. #love #boys #mama #kind #bekind #kindness #kindnessmatters

Love this! Already talking to my boys about: avoidant dating patterns, ghosting, the value in open communication, self love to draw in healthy relationships, real intimacy vs porn (with older son) and so much more. They laugh at my #lessonsinthecar but hopefully someday they will NOT be “heart breakers” and will experience the beauty and rawness of deep, more meaningful connections. #love #boys #mama #kind #bekind #kindness #kindnessmatters
106 5 11 February, 2020

🇬🇧🎱 #sexyWednesday
Sexuality is a movement.
Passion, energy, strength, tension - this is what turns us on!!!
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In speech, these are expressive phrases, tempo, bright intonation, not necessarily loud, but clear words...
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In clothes, it’s flying hair, long earrings, bracelets, jewelry that move and ring.
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Do you agree?
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🇷🇺🎱 #сексуальнаясреда
Сексуальность - это движение. Страсть, энергия, сила, напряжение - вот что возбуждает!!!
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В речи это выразительные фразы, темпоритм, яркая интонация, не обязательно громкие, но четкие слова...
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В одежде - это летящие волосы, длинные серьги, браслеты, украшения, которые двигаются и звенят.
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Photo by @phil.ibz
Style by @chic.ibiza
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#irmalake #irma8 #irma8com #sexy #sex #sexuality #switzerland #geneva #lausanne #zurich #moscow #ирмалэйк #ирма8 #швейцария #женева #лозанна #цюрих #москва #голос #тренерпоголосу #секс #сексуальность #голос #сексуальныйголос

🇬🇧🎱#sexyWednesday
Sexuality is a movement. 
Passion, energy, strength, tension - this is what turns us on!!!
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In speech, these are expressive phrases, tempo, bright intonation, not necessarily loud, but clear words...
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In clothes, it’s flying hair, long earrings, bracelets, jewelry that move and ring.
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Do you agree?
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🇷🇺🎱#сексуальнаясреда
Сексуальность - это движение. Страсть, энергия, сила, напряжение - вот что возбуждает!!!
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В речи это выразительные фразы, темпоритм, яркая интонация, не обязательно громкие, но четкие слова...
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В одежде - это летящие волосы, длинные серьги, браслеты, украшения, которые двигаются и звенят.
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Согласны?
Photo by @phil.ibz
Style by @chic.ibiza
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#irmalake #irma8 #irma8com #sexy #sex #sexuality #switzerland #geneva #lausanne #zurich #moscow #ирмалэйк #ирма8 #швейцария #женева #лозанна #цюрих #москва #голос #тренерпоголосу #секс #сексуальность #голос #сексуальныйголос
1,510 15 12 February, 2020

Both men and women report regrets about casual sex, but the nature of their regrets differ on average. Specifically, research finds that men report more regret for sexual inactions, whereas women report more regret for sexual actions. Put another way, men tend to regret the sex they didn’t have, whereas women tend to regret the sex they did have.
So why is that? One possibility is that women feel pressure to regret sexual actions because there is a societal expectation that women should not have casual sex. Consistent with this idea, women are more likely than men to report worrying about the implications for their reputation after having casual sex.

Another contributing factor is that women are more likely than men to report less-than-satisfying casual experiences, owing in part to the fact that female pleasure often isn’t prioritized in these encounters. Thus, it may also be that women are regretting more of their sexual experiences simply because those experiences weren’t as pleasurable as men’s.

To learn more about this research and other theories on the origin of this gender difference, check out my Sex and Psychology blog at sexandpsychology.com and my book Tell Me What You Want.
#sexed #sexeducation #sexpositive #sexpositivity #eroticintelligence #pleasure #sexandpsychology #casualsex #themoreyouknow #letstalkaboutsex #sexology #gender #sexuality #humansexuality

Both men and women report regrets about casual sex, but the nature of their regrets differ on average. Specifically, research finds that men report more regret for sexual inactions, whereas women report more regret for sexual actions. Put another way, men tend to regret the sex they didn’t have, whereas women tend to regret the sex they did have. 
So why is that? One possibility is that women feel pressure to regret sexual actions because there is a societal expectation that women should not have casual sex. Consistent with this idea, women are more likely than men to report worrying about the implications for their reputation after having casual sex.

Another contributing factor is that women are more likely than men to report less-than-satisfying casual experiences, owing in part to the fact that female pleasure often isn’t prioritized in these encounters. Thus, it may also be that women are regretting more of their sexual experiences simply because those experiences weren’t as pleasurable as men’s.

To learn more about this research and other theories on the origin of this gender difference, check out my Sex and Psychology blog at sexandpsychology.com and my book Tell Me What You Want. 
#sexed #sexeducation #sexpositive #sexpositivity #eroticintelligence #pleasure #sexandpsychology #casualsex #themoreyouknow #letstalkaboutsex #sexology #gender #sexuality #humansexuality
304 11 11 February, 2020

💫🤦‍♀ Quand ton gynéco se permet pépouze des réflexions absolument misogynes et n'est pas foutu de faire son boulot et de te présenter les contraceptions qui existent.. #OnNEnPeutPlus 💫🤦‍♀
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#pilule #pill #hormones #nohormones #jarretelapilule #contraception #sante #health #gynecologist #gynecologie #femme #feminisme #feminist #chargementale #poids #malecontraception #contraceptionmasculine #diaphragm #DIU #IUD #stérilet #temoignage #femalesexuality #sexuality #preservatif

💫🤦‍♀ Quand ton gynéco se permet pépouze des réflexions absolument misogynes et n'est pas foutu de faire son boulot et de te présenter les contraceptions qui existent.. #OnNEnPeutPlus 💫🤦‍♀
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On le dit et on le répète : poser des DIU (stérilets) cuivre ou hormonaux sur des jeunes femmes sans enfants est OK, aucun souci si c'est la contraception que vous voulez votre gynéco n'a pas à vous le refuser, AUCUN ARGUMENT EN CE SENS N 'EST VALABLE. ••
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#pilule #pill #hormones #nohormones #jarretelapilule #contraception #sante #health #gynecologist #gynecologie #femme #feminisme #feminist #chargementale #poids #malecontraception #contraceptionmasculine #diaphragm #DIU #IUD #stérilet #temoignage #femalesexuality #sexuality #preservatif
605 15 20 February, 2020

Dinner with friends is a balm on a Sunday evening. Especially when it’s Max and Catherine you’re meeting up with on their way back from surfing down the coast. @cjust .
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#sexcoach #sexpert #sexfluencer #wisdom #spiritual #spirituality #spiritualgangster #sexuality #feminine #femininepower #womenempowerment #power #powerful #motivation #inspiration #authentic #fearless #authenticity #inspire #inspired #universe #relationship #love #lover #radicalintimacy

Dinner with friends is a balm on a Sunday evening. Especially when it’s Max and Catherine you’re meeting up with on their way back from surfing down the coast. @cjust .
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#sexcoach #sexpert #sexfluencer #wisdom #spiritual #spirituality #spiritualgangster #sexuality #feminine #femininepower #womenempowerment #power #powerful #motivation #inspiration #authentic #fearless #authenticity #inspire #inspired #universe #relationship #love #lover #radicalintimacy
107 4 17 February, 2020

Name: Luca Sportelli
Pronouns: He/him
I’m originally from Italy but moved to Nashville in August 2018 after receiving a work offer to dance with the Nashville Ballet.
I’m a professional ballet dancer and I love what I do.
I’m enjoying Nashville a lot so far but still hard meeting nice people in and outside the gay community.
@mrlucasport

Name: Luca Sportelli
Pronouns: He/him
I’m originally from Italy but moved to Nashville in August 2018 after receiving a work offer to dance with the Nashville Ballet.
I’m a professional ballet dancer and I love what I do.
I’m enjoying Nashville a lot so far but still hard meeting nice people in and outside the gay community.
@mrlucasport
125 11 13 February, 2020
- @harry.rvi
468 3 17 February, 2020